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april 16 2020 - 20:41
What to do when the legevakten says you aren't depressed enough after you have cut yourself and feel suicidal and sends you home. when you are ignored for weeks in the hospital and sent home when you say you are not ready and they won't listen. When you have tried to get help and it goes nowhere and all you read is to reach out and get help. We are all here for you, talk to us. I feel like it's to make everyone else feel better so they can say no, don't kill yourself. then they sleep better thinking they helped, but when you actually need the real help, it's nowhere and not to be found. it's to say to everyone that they have programs and things in place to help but there's always an excuse why you don't get that help. When you can't get help from the people who are supposed to help you, there is nowhere left to go
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Re: lost

april 17 2020 - 13:39
I was admitted, I was ignored. Nobody helped or cared, and released me when I said nothing had changed because nobody had even talked to me. So my options are like you said, a bed with leather straps or fix myself. if I could fix myself, I would. Why is there no in between nothing and leather straps? It is we who get lost. We are the ones places like this exist, because there is no help for us people in the middle. Between where normal counseling doesn't work and leather straps to extreme. we are the ones that take work and effort, which the system does not have time or ability to do. it's a cruel joke on us all. Go to the extreme and get leather straps, or don't and be told you aren't extreme enough and/or just looking for attention. there are no other options at this point.
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Re: lost

april 17 2020 - 15:26
Google how to kill yourself and you get told to call 116 123. go to the legevakten and want to kill yourself and you get sent home. it's a fucking joke, all of it. so either I do it or I "fix myself" or the third option - I fail and wake up in straps twice as miserable. what choices are we given? Either make sure you succeed or it's all a bunch of bullshit and nobody can help you unless you fix yourself and if you COULD fix yourself you wouldn't be here in this position.
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I'm so sorry

april 19 2020 - 17:47
I'm sorry to hear about your situation, and that you've got no constructive help.

I was in the same situation many years ago, before I got healed from my illness and depression etc, and twice I tried to kill myself (it was a shout for help, as I actually didn't want to die). I took overdose on some pills, but I called for help afterwards and got help...well the help they could offer...but this is many years ago, so I guess they haven't the capacity to offer help to everyone today, unfortunately, and also because of this virus period etc.

I hope you will get some help somehow! I pray for you now. Please remember that you are so VALUABLE, even if you don't believe that right now. :)

Greetings from Monica.
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